Last April, 2021, we lost our lifelong friend and Caribou Club original contributor,
Cheryl Hardy Phillips
Below is a tribute to Cheryl, which she helped to put together.
We welcome any submissions of pictures or words, any length,
to this page by sending them to
geneventura@sbcglobal.net
We will forever miss Cheryl,
who always stayed in touch and was ready to do
whatever it took to keep us together.
A birthday party for Carolyn in October 1947
with Chris, Cheryl and everyone's favorite Mom, Marian
Below: Snow at the Hardy house on Gilmore St. in
January of 1949
I think that was our old Pontiac - Chris, Cheryl and Carolyn
From Gene....
I first met Cheryl Hardy 70 years ago in first grade at St. Elisabeth Elementary School, (dreadful uniforms) in Van Nuys. She had an older sister, Lyn, and a big brother, Chris. I had two brothers, Jack and Jeff. The Atkinsons and Brewsters lived up the Street. The Boulgers were around the corner. We all grew up in the idyllic San Fernando Valley during the 50’s. Life was sunny, skies were blue, we biked, roller-skated, and then in the afternoons we danced, (Well, some of us) to “American Bandstand” at the Hardy house on Gilmore St. Cheryl’s parents, Marian and Howard, were wonderful and fun loving people, who welcomed pre-delinquents like me into their home. Howard, who went by the nickname “Cap,” was a mover and shaker in the Los Angeles and California political scene. We all campaigned for him, handing out bumper stickers and carrying signs at rallies. Marian was the treasurer for St Elisabeth Church. I told her one time, “Count that money carefully, Mrs. Hardy. We don’t want our tuition to go up.” By the way, it was $60 per year, per family. What is it now???
Cheryl enjoyed a fulfilling career as a Library and Media Specialist, and affected many young lives. (See story below). I also went into teaching, so we had regular opportunities to argue or agree about reading and education, usually over ample glasses of beer and wine. She was a great friend throughout her whole life, always ready with a meaningful thought or story.
There seems to be universal agreement that the greatest single event of Cheryl’s life was meeting Stan Phillips, one of the coolest dudes ever to float upon the planet. They married, and then the next two greatest events of Cheryl’s life occurred, the arrivals of their two daughters, Jennifer and Amy. What a great life in Newhall. Then Stan’s untimely death not only shocked and saddened everyone, but it bounced Cheryl into the situation of being, in a moment, a single parent. But we watched Cheryl handle her tremendous loss and subsequent short and long term multiple challenges with much determination and love.
Cheryl was a
founding member of the Caribou Club and an original contributor and editor to
this webpage. She also helped when we set up a non-profit tax deductible charitable 501-c-3 corporation, The Caribou Club Foundation.
Our non profit Charter requires community based donations that help support Senior services, so in Cheryl's name, the Caribou Club Foundation is donating $500 to
The Bernardi Senior Center in Van Nuys.
In case you didn’t know, The Caribou Club gets its name from the herds that run wild up north. But when caribou get old and slow down, they must beware of wolves and other old age issues. So the Caribou Club tries to keep everyone running, but sometimes someone doesn’t make it, and this cycle of life defines our existence.
We will all miss Cheryl, her charm, her energy, her lust for life. Huge loss for me.
So long, Cheryl.... Gene Meyer
Below are two photo collages from Cheryl's Memorial, held last Saturday,
Oct 25, 2021. The first is family and the second is friends.
Below, some photos of our Caribou Campouts
In Ventura in April, 2009 with teacher friend and budding author, Dianne White and Children's author, Alexis O'Neill
The whole family in Lake Piru at my Retirement Party on May 2, 2009.
Marian Hardy and Pat McDuffee at a baby shower for Jeanne -1968
Cheryl with Jen and her two, Olivia and Carter, and Amy with Miss Lucy on Balboa Island in July 2008.
Cheryl on her last day at work in the Peachland Library with my great teachers and friends.
Thank you for visiting Cheryl's memorial page. Her brother Chris Hardy also had a page on this website that Cheryl put together when Chris passed and which we have taken the liberty to include. Please click below.